For most of history, the meaning of life was not a topic of sustained reflection
because
it seemed uncertain and quite unpleasant to define. The new age begins with
millennials.
Have you
ever stepped back to ask yourself questions on what we live for and what might be
our
future. Evitably, self-consciousness is a generational challenge as well as a
prerequisite to create
true happiness and fulfillment within any cells of mankind.
Actually, we understand so much more about what we were taught at school, but we
still
grapple with intellectual concepts of life's meaning and its ultimate end. Some
might
feel
disconnected and depressed by trying to find their place. Centuries have shown what
later gets called a successful enterprise – at the outset – is just an idea about
what
they want for
themselves and others. By wondering what is counted to be meaningful in your eyes?
Once
it has been clearly named, your life would have turned upside down completely just
by
discovering your inner self. Everyone has their own definition on what their life
truly
means. There is no idealistic frame or standard for anybody, as long as you have a
faithful belief that
you would thoroughly satisfy with all of your decisions every time you make an
introspection later on. Others cannot be relied upon to determine what will be
meaningful to your very
existence. The experiences you have gotten from all of the trials and tribulations
can
be the most solid foundation to identify what would be the mainstay of your life.
Indeed, instead of
ignoring what is inevitable, by all well-intentioned gratitudes, listen to the inner
voice and build
your own life value. I am convinced that meaning could light my way into miracles,
and
it happened to me as the only reason to stay alive from the past inner crises.
Hitherto,
my ideology was settled down by these foremost elements - the four that shape the
meaning of my life.
Love
Work
|
Family
At the dawn of a frantic world, satisfying living begins with an insight into
happiness.
For years. I have built the measure of success for myself that in retrospect, I did
have
the worth time
on Earth without regrets. A couple years ago. I started to realise I had nothing
left
but meaningless survival; no reason, no last words, no compassion, and another
chance
seemed to be
out of my reach. By that time, I did fail by default. But it was gone. The moment I
captured my set of core criteria, I began to strip away all of the inessential by
the
strong will that I finally
controlled. Moreover, it helps me to encounter all of the crucial choices in life,
those
momentary pleasures, vain triumphs, enchanted things which make me fall out of my
orbit
were
eliminated, leaving only what is truly important. In my perception, well-meaning
life
philosophy is just simply what I appreciate and an indispensable part of my life. It
boosts my happiness, satisfaction, pride, and courage day in and day out. It
suddenly
dawned on me the ideas of life is: a happy family where I belong. a dream I
cherished as
a mission for my existence, a wish
to build a long-lasting tie with my beloved one and an individual needs to be
relentlessly fostered. These are valuable treasures keeping me moving straight
forward
without distraction or
disorientation along the way. Had I really obtained anything by trading the value of
my
life, I might have found nothing but an empty mind and a lost soul. I supposed that
the
deepest
cognizance of mine is the nucleus for everything I preserve and pursuit in
long-term. In
my early 20s. I discovered how incredibly fortunate I had been, to found what I
grateful
for, which
lead me to enter one of the most important periods of my life. It was formed by four
centrally significant components inside my world: Work, love, family and I.
A compromise was reached that the goal of my working has never been merely about
eaming.
I've come to realize what makes work valuable are freedom, challenges, connection,
and
prospects. Instinctively, this approach can be more fascinating than ever. Having
lived
through all criticism, misunderstanding. isolation and refusal; they still cannot
keep
me from moving
forward. It is the power that enables me to get the most well-rounded preparation
for my
career. There is no point yearning for a job just to fill a void around the day
without
the deeply fit in
my work principles. Perhaps, in some circumstances, work satisfaction has never been
gifted, and ambitious targets need to be endeavored than ever. Truth be told, there
are
few
profound experts on the significance of love than those who are bereft of anyone to
love. It is deeply unlikely that we will ever find someone who fits perfectly with
our
envisions, then much of what we expect become unnecessary. Unwittingly, mutual
incomprehension truly is the perfect reason for irresponsibility, betrayal,
selfishness,
and insensitivity from others. The German
writer Goethe expressed bitterly: "No one has ever properly understood me, I have
never
fully understood anyone, and no one understands anyone else". To comprehend the
value of
each
individual, we have to move past the logic of ourselves to preserve our love as well
as
any other relationships. While our status in the perception of others is extremely
fragile, vice versa.
family become the most secure support for us no matter how swiftly does life change.
Nowadays, most of our lives are spent in the external world. Unfortunately, our time
for
family seem to
be too little. Given how busy our life is, caring is the simplest thing we could do
for
our parents. Those vivid memories worth more than any abstinent luxuries they have
received. Last but
not least, a part of my life meaning is myself. It includes my health, belief,
knowledge, principle, interest, habit as well as everything that belong to my inner
soul. These individualized pieces
of my puzzle that I'm striving to complete significantly contribute to create a
unique
and picturesque scene of the world I want to build. Therefore, personally, the more
effort I put into
cultivating myself, the more possibility I have to actualize my dream. Furthermore,
with
an explicit mastery of myself, I would have given others a stable reliance to rely
on.
The greatest successes come from understanding the smallest. The meaning of your
life is
already within your reach. If not, probably you haven't evaluated its value right
enough
to feel
pleased with your surrounding simplest. Instead of paying a high price for lack of
self-consciousness about life-meaning, you can start exploring your infinite
potential
by expanding your
horizons into your innermost treasure. Embarking on a subconscious adventure might
not
be easy, but its prize would be worth far beyond anyone imagination.
If you believe that every life has equal value, it might let you down someday. The
reality isn't
as romantic as the fairy tale you were told, in fact, some lives are considered to
be valuable
while others are not – it's inequity. But optimistically saying, all of us can
decide whether we
are worthy or not base on an amazing privilege is time. Everyone has the same amount
of time
but the way we use it will reflect our value precisely in the future.
As an exploding civilization, our pace of living has changed astonishingly. It's a
"double-edged
sword" issue, to whom can adapt perfectly will tum out to be successful; parallel,
it puts the
unfit into misfortune. Seen in that light, I came across that the biggest difference
between two
sides above comes from what called Time. It hides miracle behind since time is the
only thing
everyone has exactly the same and also the only thing none spends identically. Being
conscious
about the value of each day you live, how will you spend your days? Either leverage
it as
a priceless asset or waste it as a pointless item? But remember, your future is the
rewards you
paid with every single moment you are spending. One of the most contradictory facts
is that
even though we admit the importance of time, we still couldn't use them effectively
as our
expectation. Imagine someone who is exceedingly productive, each day of their life
creates value
and it's accumulated to achieve merit rewards for themselves. Day by day, the ones
who been left
by the general pace of social living would wonder whether life wasn't fair or they
weren't
endeavoring enough to have a fruitful harvest for their life after all. Despite all
excuses will
be given, you still couldn't deceit yourself that you have to responsible for your
life - it has
been created on your own. While most other conditions may find it hard to control,
you still be the master of your time, so use it as wisely as possible. Time is the
series of your days; thus,
having a productive day is contributing to initiate an extraordinary life. As a
consequence, we all need to build a helpful standard schedule for ourselves straight
away. So, with your 24
hours per day, how will you allocate it into four time-bottles below effectively?
Work
Essential activity
Learn
Rest and
entertainment
Theoretically, a bunch of beneficial timetables is given throughout schools and
general media, but it's a matter of individuality. Each of us has our own vision and
orientation, which means applying
one standard on the daily schedule is nonsense. Quite hard to say whether which tasks
are useful or useless in daily activities; it depends on our conception about
life-meaning that decides which
tasks are the best support to our future. Beneath the difference between rewarding
endeavors and poisonous activities lies a vision of what we are pursuing. Therefore,
immersing in which supposed to be outside of orientation would be seen as a waste
that brings nothing but procrastination for what deserves to undertake at the front
sight. In job-seeking challenges, time management
is one of the paramount skill that makes someone is appreciated, hired, promoted,
and rewarded. Besides, in person, it's the skill anyone all needs to keep their
schedule in harmony, productive,
accurate, and fluent. To deal with a reasonable timetable is to organize ourselves
by a higher discipline into a frame of the priority goals. Faced with too many
choices at one time could be puzzling.
but having a list of supportive work that leads to our destination is the first
compulsory step to get rid of a thousand other distractions. After setting up a
foundation of what you are striving for,
building a management system is the next step to control your time potently. Many
tools would be helpful to systematize the series of your work, and in order to be
more objective, some rewards
and punishments could be applied as motivation along the way. By the power - you
already have inside, lift a finger on what makes sense to your lives.
In a bid to trace back to my past, in many amusements and self-complicated
hypotheses, my entire academic period was squandered. At once in later midnight, in a
room corner, was the time I
regretted for a long-lasted day with nothing had been accomplished. Until the middle
of global shutdown, I was looking back at the path I've been passing and seriously
envision the picture where it
would lead me to; it was devastating. For sure, no one wants to live in there for
entire life, and neither I. As another scene that I had painted for myself turned my
biography to a new page. During
the following days, I urgently planned my framework, listed goals, set up daily
targets, composed discipline regulation, and built a personal report system. Most of
these extraordinary endeavors aim to struggle against the default of tedious fate in
the eyes of a liberalist. The myth of the time revolution in reality, wasn't a
phenomenal breakthrough as same as the misapprehension of people. Nothing
can be changed in a night, it's a whole relentless process of self-enhancement.
Throughout the historic pandemic, I've spent all of my time studying and initiating
good habits. A typical day of mine has
arisen from 4:30 am till 9:30 pm, sorted into four main groups of time includes
working, self-studying, essential activities, and leisure. Studying and working 12
hours per day is a slightly uncomfortable
experience for the 20-year-old that I've had. In every early morning, I usually
report every single task I completed yesterday circumspectly. At this point, in
search of life's clear-sightedness, my particular
line of work generally consists of strategic planning, self-studying, immersing in
design, researching, ideas experiments, reading books, networking, and fostering
personal interests such as writing or
crafting. By taking advantage of excel, my time can be analyzed by the chart to
notice if it was leveraged well enough yet to minimize downtime as lowest as
possible. It worked – as just a beginning of
my developing process. Gradually, the timetable would be changed better over time
and end up with myriad good habits of a successful master in self-administration as
well as time management.
Time lends its possessor all the power to reach almost everything they want. Since
having time means having knowledge, experiences, wisdom, and even a zillion
priceless other things in the
universe that someone could trade their hard-working period to achieve.
Notwithstanding, whenever time hasn't had the respect it deserved, it would deprive
almost everything valuable to its
owner. And perhaps: The Titans of all historical periods might have nothing when
they haven't been successful; but certainly, they knew how to live deservedly with
the limited time they had.
In the middle of adulthood upheaval, humankind has tinged with intense hierarchy by
the authenticity in mindset. And despite the widespread scale of information, rather
oddly, filling the large part of the world, those are apprentices of life yet always
be self-righteous according to a pitiful shortsighted perspective. In fact, beyond
anyone's total control, the world's operation has its own rules that shape the
righteous mindset of humans.
Being the most intelligent creature on this planet, the possibilities of human
brains seem to be unlimited. Science has pointed us as a mysterious part of the
world - a unique formulation came in sorts of wisdom, adaption, imagination, and
sentiment that we are inherent. Along with that, it is the power that enables us to
perceive, empathize, cultivate, and develop to keep the society moving forward
throughout million years past. Reflecting on your comprehension about surrounding
aspects infers that: "Your life is only as good as your mindset". Given how sure
this approach can be, the more expanding of our minds, the more advancing of our
lives. Therefore, stretching the reach of viewpoint has never been urgently critical
than right now. The thing is, where to start and how to do it? Ordinarily, some
might suppose that the minds of geniuses are structured differently from the rest of
people. But the truth is, they simply take everything more seriously than we do, and
owning a great mind doesn't have any secret recipe reserved for the mastermind.
Hence, no matter who you are, wishing for a pleasant or admirable life, giving a
clear notion of mindset is fundamental to build your gratifying dream. Like any
planted seed on Earth, the maturity in our perception customarily runs through four
prime stages: sow the consciousness, water the learning process, trim the flawed
conceptions, and fertilize an open-minded spirit.
In line with the development of this age, our generation has to deal with millions
of problems coming from conflicting personal opinions. Unfortunately, with all
energy and knowledge equipped, commoners prefer to allege and depose than empathize
and forgive each other. By the impoverished intellectual backgrounds, neither of
whom has elicited an appropriate solution of its fact. Regardless of truths, the
instinct of human egocentrism doesn't admit any fault of one did, which comes to an
awful causality that they would rather win disgracefully or even end of their
relationship than consider right-mindedness together. Day by day, a poor mindset
will gradually undermine the entire career, rapport, mental health, and virtue until
they honestly accept the lesson from their mistakes. Furthermore, we're living in a
correlative community - every single thought, word, behavior, and attitude of us
does not only represent ourselves but also has an impact on others. This suggests
that we should learn to be more humble and tolerant towards the various stances of
people. It would always be wiser if we were in their shoes than our own, simply
because it delivers a
broad sight to see an issue from many different angles. Remembering how touchy-feely
our mentality could be, is the best way to avoid the trap of self-justifying hazard.
These may seem relatively abstract, but it's happening in tranquility before we
could timely awaken. Vice versa, in the halo of a growth mindset, who possessed a
clear-sightedness would have the root signs of delicateness, charisma, compassion,
and a certain admiration. Additionally, far beyond any descriptions, one of the
preeminent benefits of a profound intellect is how it motivates those who besides to
jointly towards a better social life. Thereby, we could use our minds to think more
thoroughly in every circumstance. Since our inevitable connection with the outside
world, enhancing every single aspect of mindset is merely not only a personal choice
but also a compulsory duty to anyone. It could be challenging - even so, with your
intelligence and the education you have received, how would you spend it?
From the bottom of delusion valley on comprehension, an idiot has initiated a
remarkable journey with a willing change status. During the pilgrimage to the
treasure of right concepts, I've detected plenty of faults in my primitive ideology.
It hallmarked on me: Whatever I extremely trust at the moment might turn out to be
flawed at a different time or situation. And sometimes, walking out of the
antiquated well-worn path is better than following the ideals of the majority. While
life-meaning is a choice and time is a gift, then a righteous mindset is the
crystallization of knowledge, experience, and cognizance throughout a human's
lifetime. As a principle ahead of time, a great mind could have obtained no other
way without all of those elements. It's an endless adventure. When I take a trip
down memory lane, my neglected thoughts once more tapped. What I have passively
learned from parents teaching, academic programs, standard doctrines, or
predecessor's advice would never definitely be deep-rooted in my soul until it has
been verified and concluded by reality experiences alone. In other words, none of
the worthy fruition is complimentary. Becoming an autodidact is always the proudest
thing of my life. I'm exploring the world with the highest curiosity one might have.
By all sources of worldwide information, most kind of subject I need to learn is
already published. And much of what I'm absorbing has slowly reinforced my point of
view for years. This accumulation comes to the growth but also equal challenges that
I have synthesized from those whom I admire most. Inside my hidden library, a host
of irrational and exceptional ideas could be found effortlessly. Perhaps, having
live through criticism and the closest's disparagement, part of the fragile ego has
disposed of itself. Honestly, I'm always grateful for the hardships I faced,
failures I overpassed, and miseries I endured in my life. Because it gave me a
strong will besides myriad precious lessons that I would never learn in theory. At
this point, when I nearly graduate - responsibility lies on my wheel, with the
tremendous ambition, is to get a better mindset after day.
Of all time, the world stratifies the human race into different classes according to
their level of mindset. When a person's worth is evaluated on their worldview, they
belong to where they are supposed to be. Although everyone's starting point might
not be the same; however, nourishing a righteous mindset is the thing everyone can
accomplish in any circumstances. With the insightful understanding, life won't be as
difficult as we used to think. In the end, being tired after noises outside, inner
peace is what one needs to perceive the right direction.
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Kristine Lorraine
